A Simple Guide to Wearing Gemstone Jewelry

Diamonds are forever…at least, according to De Beers Consolidated Mines Ltd., the company that singlehandedly invented the diamond engagement ring. But regardless of the role of advertising in the storied history of gemstone jewelry, humans have used gemstones to signify luxury for centuries.

The beauty of the 21st century is that women of all walks of life can now style gemstone jewelry as their own unique self-expression.

If you’re just getting started with gemstone jewelry or looking to revamp the way you wear your gems, here’s a basic guide to wearing gemstone jewelry.

Classic Jewelry is the Best Jewelry to Get Started

You might not think of the word “personal brand” as applying to anyone with a double-digit Instagram following, but the way you dress is part of your own personal brand. It’s how you present yourself to the world, and jewelry is an important part of that. The types of jewelry you wear on a daily basis make a statement about who you are.

To that end, the best place to start is to invest in a classic piece you love and use it as your everyday piece.

It doesn’t have to be a pricey piece, like the Chanel pearls or the Van Cleef & Arpels Alhambra necklace, though you can certainly invest in such a piece if you have the money to swing for it. It could be as simple as a chain necklace with a single gorgeous pearl, or a classic pair of diamond studs, or a sleek diamond tennis bracelet.

The key to a classic gemstone piece is to find something that’s complementary to most styles. Opt for understated jewelry when shopping for your daily classic.

Also, don’t be afraid to branch off the beaten path for less-known gemstones—that’s how you’ll find a piece that’s unlike anyone else. This spinel collection is a great example, with a high refractive index and resulting brilliance.

Don’t Forget Your Jewelry Etiquette

In theory, you could break out your own Touissant necklace for a full Ocean’s Eight Met Gala moment every time you walk into work. You could, but you shouldn’t.

Much like you wouldn’t wear a prom dress to a law office or cowboy boots to go swimming, there’s a time, a place, and an etiquette rulebook for gemstone jewelry. Conservative offices (like law offices) are best served by simple studs, but you can add more jewelry in a creative environment. As a rule, if you’re not sure whether you’re wearing too much jewelry to work, shed a few items.

For a formal event, the kind that demands heels and your best dress, you can break out the fanciest, boldest gemstones in your wardrobe.

Delicate Jewelry for Elegance, Chunky Jewelry for Boldness

For everyday wear, stick to two cardinal rules: delicate jewelry for elegance, chunky jewelry for boldness.

For example, if you’re wearing a sleek business outfit, a simple gemstone pendant ups the refinement factor. At dinner parties, you can break out a colorful gemstone bracelet. In these cases, the jewelry is a quieter finishing touch.

On the other hand, if you’re looking to spice up some jeans and a t-shirt, you can reach for chunky jewelry. For a fun look, pair a chunky necklace with classic blue jeans and a plain white tee. Throw on your favorite lipstick and you’re ready to stroll down the sidewalk like it’s your personal runway.

Wearing Jewelry, Styling Jewelry, and Making Jewelry Your Own

Gemstone jewelry is a great way to add sparkle and personality to your everyday style. Once you find your go-to gemstone and jewelry style, it’s easy to dress up your everyday look. And if you want more great style tips, make sure to check out our blog for more great posts.